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Musings, by Rhonda & Kevin
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Welcome Dear Reader: |
Posted: 07-Nov-2007 12:00am - by Rhonda
Let me introduce myself to you, I am Rhonda and this is my web site.
I am new to the land of computers and I am a one finger typist, but my desire to get myself and my ability out there and to come out of my comfort zone is pushing me to learn .
My "hands of destiny" web site will grow, it may be slow, but I look forward to the process and what lies ahead for us all. I welcome anyone to be a part of the progress, i.e., testimonials, insights, etc.
Anyone who knows me, knows that I pray for the office of my dreams, and now that things are starting to take off for me, I am sure that 2008 is going to be all about where and how I find it, or should I say how it finds me !!
I have been doing readings all of my life, so far back that I can't remember a time when I haven't had the ability to see things very differently to everyone around me.
I have read for many, many people from all different walks of life, and all over the world. As the work I do is so sporadic and with the pressures of being a single mum for 11 years of two children, I haven't had the support or confidence in myself.
Due to a lot of ill health as a child I missed out on most of my schooling, and I still find that, reading, writing, spelling, math's and forms are still areas that I struggle with today, but now that I am older, my children have flown the coop, I have the fantastic support of my wonderful husband Kevin, it's time for me to be all that I am destined to be.
Starting with my name RHONDA as the song says," HELP, HELP, ME RHONDA "
That's who I am and that's what I do !!!
As time progresses, these pages (Rhondas Musings) will become my diary (a blog as they say in this brave new world), and I invite you to be a part of my journey.
Love and light,
Rhonda x
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Some things of interest. |
Posted: 22-Mar-2008 12:00am - by Rhonda
A friend of ours suggested we watch a dvd he had lent me by a guy named Gregg Braden called " the Science of Miracles" which to us is like an easier to understand version of "The Secret", "Down the Rabbit Hole" or " What the Bleep ".
You can check out Greggs website at www.greggbraden.com.
Kevin and I found it to be very interesting viewing.
We suggest you check out a website , which is www.tut.com , Totally Unique Thoughts, which was created by Mike Dooley.
We receive a daily email containing a thought for the day, the message always seems so relevant. Also we have listened to a few of Mike Dooleys c/ds which are about the power of thought and our ability to manifest through the way we think and believe.
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Our Once A Year Big House Clearing!!! |
Posted: 10-Feb-2008 12:00am - by Rhonda
On February 7th - 2008 it was a very auspicious day, with it being a New moon, an eclipse and the start of the year of the Rat for Chinese New Year. I mentioned to a few of my friends that an astrologer had said to Kev and I, that this energy was not going to be around for another 150 years, and that it was a great day for letting go of past issues that maybe holding us back.
Over the many years that Kev and I have been together we have done hundreds of clearings, and over those years we have pick up different bits and pieces, we just keep refining and adding to it. Sometimes I might do just my Reading area; sometimes I do different parts of the clearing. I always do this Big Clearing once a year. I change it around depending on what is happening for Kev and I, sometimes we do it on New Years Eve, or New Years Day, or on The Chinese New Year.
In preparation for the yearly clearing, Kev and l have a big clean up, any clutter that has accumulated since the last clearing we deal with, and the day before l vacuum and mop, getting rid of all the dirt and grit from the past year. Kev worked on the outside of the house, mowing, whipper snipping, etc.
While explaining this to my friends, they got excited and also wanted to do this clearing for their homes and businesses, so at the exact time that Paul had suggested, there was a massive shutting of businesses and all over the place, my friends were doing this clearing, it was just an amazing experience for me to watch and be amazed at how my words to friends had gathered so much momentum, and I really saw for the first time in my life how influential that I am, after it, I got so many phone calls, as this brought so much joy to everyone, so of course I then saw the need for me to put this information on our website to share with you all.
Things you will need:
1. White emergency candles ( that burn for at least 8 hours )
2. Small plates
3. Rock salt
4. Blu tack
5. Lavender oil
6. Flowers
7. Buckets with lids
8. Lighter
9. Sage, lavender or rosemary
10. Incense
11. Oil burners
12. Smudge stick
13. Ash trays
14. Time, at least 1 day
THE NIGHT BEFORE.
This year we used 26 candles, (which adds up to an 8 for the year 2008) you can do as many as you want, we either carve or write on the candles words like, Love, Peace, Harmony anything that we might want to bring in or let go of, so what we do is, we get the same amount of small plates, and we blu tack the candles to the plates, we also put a piece of card board, or a tile under the plates to protect the flooring because when the candle burns down it gets very hot. Next we pour rock salt completely around the candle on the plate, no gaps, then I put some flowers on top of the salt as an offering, then I sprinkle lavender essential oil over the whole thing. Next, Kev and I decide where we are going to place them, we always place them in front of all doorways, always one in each room sometimes two depending on how big the room is or how heavy the energy is in the room, and as we place them on the floor we always and with every single candle say this Prayer: Mother Nature please help us to do this clearing, Mother Nature please in your infinite wisdom, please take any negative energy that is here, as I put this plate down, and allow any negative energy to start being drawn into the salt so as it will leave my space when this ceremony is over. Kev and I leave them in position over night until ready for lighting.
When Kev and l wake up, we have a special breakfast, we then strip all bedding and towels and replace with fresh, clean linen, then we start writing about all the things that maybe we need to release, eg, past pains, any hurts, any guilt, and we make the statement "we forgive ourselves and all others" and we keep writing and writing, as we are getting closer to the end, we write about the things that we are thankful for, and for all that we have, and for all that we are. When we have finished, we go to the beach, first we have a swim to cleanse our auras, when on the beach we stand up and make this statement, which is "if there is anything on me that shouldn,t be on me LEAVE NOW " we say this loudly and clap our hands once very loud at the end, then we dig a hole and burn all of our pages with some sage, rosemary, anything that l may have on hand.
Once the papers have finished burning and are cooling down, we have another swim, giving thanks to Mother Nature and ask her to cleanse and clear our bodies. We then pick up the ashes, and throw them into the sea. When we have finished our swim, Kev and l take all of our crystals into the water and cleanse them while thanking mother earth clearing any negativity that they may contain, we then fill buckets with sea water to take home.
When we get home, Kev and l call upon the diva of our property ( all properties have a Diva or energy to protect it ) and ask that the diva assists us in cleansing the outside of our home, so in the style of a holy person, Kev and l walk around our house, splashing the beach water everywhere, praying all the time for our home to be cleansed and cleared, we walk around all of our boundaries, and along our drive way, all around our foundations of our home, we also do the inside of our home, as l believe that beach water is a fantastic cleanser and healer. So we spray all of the corners of every room and where ever else we feel the need, as you can,t go wrong with salt water.
We never put any bills or any important documents in the bin we have a burning box, when it is full and it,s a new moon we burn it off, with lavender, sage, or rosemary, once it has cooled down, l put the ashes on our plants to grow our wealth, so this is what we did, all of the outside before we went inside, because once you light those candles you have to watch them for the next 9 hours, and l believe that you should be together rather than one outside and one inside.
Kev and l go inside and open up all windows and doors with fans on low to really move the energy and smoke and incense around.
Next we light all of the candles saying a prayer of thanks as we do it. Then we light packets of incense as many as you like, we also light all oil burners in the house with any oil of your choice, we also burn all of our burners that we have with the coal incense. Then we break up a smudge stick and put some of it into the four corners of our home, we then light the rest of the smudge stick and put it into a safe container so as we can move it around from room to room while the candles are burning.
Once everything is organized, we have showers after the beach, open a bottle of wine, and the new energy is beginning, so the more fun you have at this time the better, movie, music, friends, celebrate the new, always keeping an eye on all of the candles. DON,T BLAME ME IF YOU DON,T WATCH YOUR CANDLES IT IS FIRE AFTER ALL !!!!
Keep relighting the smudge and moving it around, but don,t touch the candles until they are all finished and have cooled down. When everything is all finished, go around picking everything up, putting it all into a separate garbage bag and l always get it off my property straight away, we have our bin at the end of our road.
Well this is the way that Kev and l do our home, you can do your version of this, do just parts of it, you don,t have to do it when we do, you can do it at any time, whenever you feel the need.
I promised everyone that I would put what kev and I do on the website, so know I have, l know it,s a lot, it takes a lot and it takes a long time, but to us it is well worth it, as afterwards our home feels terrific and we don,t feel that one day a year is much to ask, to ensure our home is a positive energy space.
Another thing we have done was to have Perrie Burton, our feng shui consultant ( www.fengshiugoldcoast.com ) come to our house and helped us to improve the energy of our home, also we have recently been recommended to try the services of Maggie Landman, who is an earth whisperer ( www.maggielandman.com ), working with the earths lay lines to clear any energy blockages that may exist on your property.( you can find Perrie and Maggie on the LINKS page of our website )
There is a wonderful book by one of my favorite authors Denise Linn, it is called Sacred space (Enhancing the energy of your home and office) I met and did some "one on one" work with Denise about 20 years ago, Denise helped me more than l could ever explain, Denise is truly an inspirational women, l love her, she is just a beautiful, amazing lady, as l am writing this, l am remembering one day at a talk that Denise was doing, when she grabbed my arm and rushed me into the ladies toilet and the two of us were showing each other our scars from operations and comparing them to each others, gosh we laughed and laughed, l will never forget that day, Denise changed my life.
We now await all of life,s wonderful experiences, we give thanks to the universe and all of its beauty, we thank all who teach and help us, every day in every way.
Go Away Powder
Obtain (whole if possible) so you can grind them down, dried chillies, whole black peppers, any herb or root that is "hot" by nature, that is, if you ate to much it would burn. Put them into a bag and roll them into powder or grind down. Really put your energy into grinding them.
If you cannot get all the items whole, you can use the powder, but hold it and put your energy into it. Then get some sparkles, glitter etc. Mix it all together, put on some rubber gloves, you do not want to handle this with bare hands, you might get "burnt".
Sprinkle this on the ground around the area you want to keep certain people off.
The hot herbs create a ring of fire and the glitter sparkles are like little mirrors, mirroring back any negativity.
Walk around the perimeter of the area sprinkling the powder down. You can invocation like "anything negative cannot cross this line"
Bless your hearts, and happy clearing,
Best wishes,
Rhonda and Kevin. xx
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The Web Connection. |
Posted: 07-Jan-2008 11:03pm - by Rhonda
I am just amazed that, in the very short amount of time that Kev and I have been working at getting this web site of the ground, just how many people have found me again, from as far back as 15 years ago. One person contacted me and made comment that she wanted to know that it was the same Rhonda from all those years ago, she was ecstatic when she found out that it was me, she did not know where I had moved to and somebody had given her my number, but it was wrong and she had thought that she had lost me forever. I had lost my mobile phone and had to change my number so a lot of people didn`t know how to find me, then of course she told another person that knew me from years ago, before you know it I have reconnected with so many people again, it has been so wonderful.
To all of the wonderful reconnection's
Welcome back,
Love Rhonda x
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Different Tools That Psychics Use: |
Posted: 07-Jan-2008 09:40pm - by Rhonda
I have been doing readings for people that I haven't known for over 28 years, during these years through spirits guidance I have, at different times learnt to use different tools , ie,
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Photo readings.
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Tea leaf readings.
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Tarot card readings.
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Coffee cup readings.
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Hand writing readings.
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Business card readings.
Over these years I have learnt to "Tune Into" people's voices over the phone, I also have lots of Small, Medium and large Companies, that send me all of their application forms and ask me for advise on who are the best people to fill job positions.
Peace and harmony,
Rhonda x
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My Asthma experience. |
Posted: 07-Jan-2008 12:49pm - by kevin
Since meeting Rhonda, I have experienced some amazing things; this is one of those stories.
When I first met Rhonda I was an asthmatic and had been from an early age to at that time, 35 years old. I was so dependent on inhalers that I would have them stashed all around the house; I would go to sleep using them and start the day the same way. During one of my many asthma attacks, Rhonda said to me; "Kev, do you know why you have asthma?", "what do you mean? I don`t understand!" was my reply.
Rhonda went on to explain to me that,it was her belief, that all physical ailments were because of an emotional blockage, and in my case that, at an early age, an incident with my Dad had created within me the symptoms of asthma. I had never had a good relationship with my Dad, but after my conversation with Rhonda, I began to think back and I remembered when I had my first Asthma attack.
My mum and dad had been arguing again, I was in the back yard and heard my mum screaming, I ran inside to find my dad kneeling over mum strangling her. I screamed at him "noooooo" and then with "hulk" like strength grabbed dad by the shoulders and dragged him backwards (we have all heard of those stories of superhuman strength, I truly believe it now!) .He shot backwards 8 feet, hit the wall and slumped to the ground. I quickly got mum up and she went to the bathroom, but I then started hyperventilating and fell to the ground struggling to breathe. My dad freaked out, it was like he sobered up instantly, he picked me up and took me outside, he then ran inside, grabbed a mattress and set up a bed for me under the stars and in the cool night air. He lay beside me trying to calm me down, I soon fell asleep. From that night on the symptoms persisted so Mum took me to the doctors who diagnosed Asthma.
What I realized after remembering that awful night was that, the then 12 year old Kevin had equated:
1. The "Asthma" had stopped his drunken father from hurting his Mum,
2. The "Asthma" had given Kev the attention from his Dad he so desperately craved.
The sad thing was though, it never worked again, the beatings continued and so did the asthma and I never did get that positive attention again.
Over the next few weeks I continued remembering the relationship that I had with my Dad, I got angry, I got sad and I forgave me for giving myself this debilitating ailment. Within 6 weeks the symptoms I had coped with for the last 23 years had disappeared and even though I am overweight, I can run and never get short of breath ever again.
I will be forever thankful for Rhonda`s guidance in helping me heal from this painful past, and shortly after this time, Rhonda suggested that I find my Dad, and go see him to begin the next stage in my healing experience, but that`s another story..............
Best wishes,
Kev x
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Musings from Cam our web man. |
Posted: 07-Jan-2008 12:00am - by Campbell Dunstan
I had asked Cam our Web advisor for information regarding our website and the following information are excerpts from an email Cam sent to us;
"Also, a lot of people stumbling on your site in its early days when it is incomplete will not stay long, nor will they be tempted to book themselves in. The site has to acquire "credibility" - the average person will visit a site many times before taking the plunge to book themselves in. Now that you are entering real articles and blog entries, visitors will start to feel they are getting to know you and their confidence will grow - they will ascertain that you are a real person with a history of satisfied clients, not just another business trying to cash in on the growing demand for alternate solutions to age old problems. There are a LOT of astrology and numerology type sites out there flogging pre-written counselling essays pumped out by a machine in response to certain birthdays, names, nationalities and so on - they do not offer credible and personalized readings or any actual true relationship with clients. They are a BUSINESS, first and foremost, usually highly automated. Nevertheless, they are in some sense your competitors, even if the nature of their offerings in no way equates to what you offer. Their sites are big, often they have full time staff pumping the site content and processing payments and they make it harder for the genuine operators to get noticed."
"Since you already have a record of success, in as much as you have a long list of clients who have no doubt in their minds now of the value of your readings, you can answer the doubts MUCH more effectively than those businesses who take the arrogant stance with false promises and trite assumptions that there is no possibility of alternate points of view, no other pathways to happiness and no room for skepticism."
"As an objective observer, I believe that the biggest single problem for psychic readers is the difficulty of separating themselves from the pretenders. Genuine practitioners have to work hard at educating the public about the difference between real and imagined abilities. However many competent psychics probably believe that mother nature will take care of the pretenders, but in truth public education is the surer way - perhaps you can become a bit of a pioneer in this pursuit?? "
"For now, just chip away at it and it will grow, like a small acorn, to an oak."
"Cheers, Cam."
Thank you Cam for your insights,
Rhonda and Kev xx
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Over the many years that I have been doing psychic readings: |
Posted: 02-Jan-2008 12:11pm - by Rhonda
I have done and have been a part of many different experiences, for many years I was a part of a team of people and we did House clearings. While doing this work I learnt a lot about spirit, how to see them, how to smell them, how to communicate with them, even though I have for all of my childhood been able to see Fairies, Leprechauns, Elves and I also have seen Rainbow Folk, if not for this, I would not have been able to have coped with all of my health problems as a child. While I was in the hospital, with a hole in the heart operation I got golden staph and I had to be isolated, I would never have coped if I couldn't have talked to them all.
The experience though as a sick child, to one as a young woman was another level of learning that I was only to eager to learn, I have never lost my ability to see all of my childhood friends and I still to this day call on them!!
My best friend was killed in front of me at the age of 13 years old and I took this very badly, but within days my friend was talking to me again, my family didn't believe me, so to prove me wrong, they asked me to ask her questions that they knew I didn't know the answers to, can you imagine their surprise when I came back with the right answers.
Even though I have my whole life been able to do this, I have never been able to explain to anybody else how I can do it, and why they can't.
Many Blessings,
Rhonda x
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MEDICAL INTUITIVE!!! |
Posted: 02-Jan-2008 12:08pm - by Rhonda
I don't know if it is because l had been so sick as a child and had so many operations but l have always been able to "tune into" people's health problems.
I AM NOT A DOCTOR IN ANY WAY.
I just listen to spirit and I repeat what they tell me to in the hope of halting, healing and preventing sickness in the client's future.
I don't have enough room on this computer to write all of the medical cases, that through me, spirit has helped. To hear of the number of people who have listened, and then had, the required operations. People that have brought back proof with x-rays and stories of how they have gone to their doctors with the information and the doctors have found what spirit has said, it's just fantastic!
I really must express that I have no control over this, that I don't know everything and there is only so much that spirit can say in one hour, spirit is in control and if there is a medical issue that spirit want to mention they will, I cannot make this happen and it doesn't happen in every reading. In a reading with me, spirit will always give the most important information at that present time, that is why, every time a client comes to me there is always something new to say!
Love Always,
Rhonda X
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